Shelly Smith, M.A.
Family Advocate and Dementia Care navigator
About
Supporting a loved one through dementia diagnosis and treatment is one of the most challenging experiences a family can face. Making difficult and sometimes heart-wrenching decisions; learning about treatment options with their risks and benefits; communicating with medical providers; coordinating care; navigating uncertainty, grief, and exhaustion—it can all feel like far too much to carry alone.From 2020 until his passing in 2026, I supported and cared for my partner, Andrew, through his diagnosis and treatment for Early Onset Alzheimer's disease. It was the most difficult experience of my life, made even harder by the isolation and overwhelm that so many caregivers experience.As I emerge from the years of caregiving and regain the capacity to look outward again, I am acutely aware of how many caregivers are trying to navigate this type of ongoing crisis without the support they need.My professional background is in Organizational Development and project management. Over the past 6 years, I have learned to use my professional skillset to navigate the world of medical care, social services, high stakes communication with multiple providers; and difficult decisionmaking.Now I bring both my professional experience and my lived experience as a caregiver to support individuals and families facing dementia and other complex care challenges. Whether you need help understanding options, coordinating care, making difficult decisions, or simply having an experienced thought partner by your side, my goal is to help you feel more informed, supported, and less alone.If you would like to discuss your situation or learn more about how I work, please reach out.
Andrew and me, 2025
SERVICES
Introduction CallAn opportunity for us to get acquainted: for me to hear more about your situation, answer questions, explain how I work, and explore whether I may be a good fit for your needs.
30 minutes
Free---Care Clarity SessionA structured conversation with family members and engaged friends to identify current challenges, clarify priorities, assess available resources, and create a path forward.Includes:
90-minute facilitated session, in person or on Zoom
Written summary of key issues and opportunities
Recommendations and suggested next steps
90 minutes
$225---Family Advocacy and Care NavigationDuring periods of increased need, I work alongside a small number of families to provide ongoing guidance, coordination, and decision support.Services may include:* Communication with medical providers and care teams
* Coordination of services and resources
* Preparation for care transitions
* Family communication and decision support
* Ongoing problem-solving as new challenges ariseMost families engage this service for a defined period of time—often during a transition, crisis, or period of adjustment—until a sustainable new normal is established.Monthly Retainer
Fee based on complexity and level of support---Solo Caregiver Backup and Thought PartnershipFor caregivers who are carrying the responsibility for their loved one's care largely on their own, I offer a trusted space to think, process, and problem-solve.As your thought partner, I provide:*A sounding board for difficult decisions
*Perspective during periods of stress and uncertainty
*Practical feedback and strategic thinking
*A neutral observer who keeps both your well-being and your loved one's needs in viewWhen needed, I can also assist with navigating services, communicating with providers, and coordinating aspects of care.Many caregivers describe this support as having an experienced ally who understands both the emotional realities and practical complexities of caregiving.
Monthly retainer
Fee based on complexity and level of support---
What happens next?
1. We schedule a free conversation where I learn more about what you're experiencing and what feels hardest.
2. We identify what would actually help. Sometimes one clarity session is enough; sometimes ongoing support makes sense.
3. We decide together whether I'm the right person to help.